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Ever had these thoughts about someone you are dating? Too many of my friends are finding themselves there now too.I can’t say that I’m an expert on relationships, but if there is one thing that I feel like God taught me during my dating years (and it took about three years too many for me to learn this) it is that you should never settle for less than God’s best.However, once I put God in charge of my love life, a funny thing happened.I began to see in Matt several of those “husband material traits” that I had been searching for with other guys.I truly wanted to do what I felt was God’s will, but I also really didn’t want to give up the relationship.It wasn’t until I was fully ready to obey God’s leading, that the answer came.I know that sounds harsh, but let me explain my theory on Christian dating. But I do believe that if you are seeking God’s will about who you date, He will lead you to someone that is a true fit for you.
We had met in college and built a solid friendship through the years, but I had not considered him in a romantic way (although he repeatedly let me know that he was somewhat interested in me).I believe that there are any number of people that we each could marry and make it work – and even be happy.But I also believe that we will be happiest in marriage if we allow God to choose our mate for us.Since I had not done such a great job of choosing relationships on my own, I decided to let God choose the next one.I wouldn’t even consider dating again until I had sought His will about the person and the relationship.