16 and 20 year old dating
And if that person happens to be 3 or 4 years younger than them, and that love is genuine and mutual, then I believe we should respect that. well my gf is seventeen very nearly 18, and i am also 20.
I guess what I'm trying to say is that if the person is just looking to abuse and take advantage of the younger one, then it is wrong. I made a funny face to a child one time at the grocery store and the mother called me a pedophile. i felt awkward about it when she first told me her age but i think its not too big a gap.
Now however, its like, "ZOMG, hes a child molester!!! " I think this is a result of the media overblowing the problem of child molestation and child abuse.
Yes, its despicable, but I think that many people have become to cautious.
Yesterday he asked me if its okay to go out with her concidering shes a bit...young.... They had something about it in school but now i forget.
Probably illegal or somehting and it's kinda messed up, he must be pretty desperate. not only is it cradle robbing (20/2 = 10 7 = 17 = the youngest person he should be dating) but im pretty sure its illegal...
Now if this was a 15 year old male and a 20 year old female, I bet most would be complimenting the guy for getting an older girl (unless of course that girl who got impregnated by a 13 year old has left a bad taste in your mouth : P) No its bad.
( around where i live 16 is age of consent and if its over 5 years age difference its automatic statutory, which i think is pretty basic ) well my gf is seventeen very nearly 18, and i am also 20.I am getting really sick of people thinking that just because they are behind a computer screen its okay to talk like there is nothing wrong with this. And let me riterate IT IS NOT LEGAL AND YOU COULD BECOME CHARGED AND CLASSIFIED AS A SEX OFFENDER. I'm 20, and a 15 year old girl was hitting on me a few weeks ago.She was kinda hot and looked 18, but then she told me she just turned 15, so it was really a downer, and I decided to just not touch that lol. I dont want to be with anyone still in high school....I guess what I'm trying to say is that if the person is just looking to abuse and take advantage of the younger one, then it is wrong.However, if the base of their attraction is a true, genuine, and mutual love, then I believe we should respect that.